False Hope
November 20, 2007As salaam alaykum,
well Ive done it again. I got excited over a possible proposal which in its very early stages has been suspended.Probably ended.
Ive forgotten how many times this has happened. It is the will ofAllah and surely there is wisdom behind it. I need to learn something else before Allah blesses me with a husband. But what it is Im not sure.
Ive contemplated what is it I need to know? What is it that Allah wants me to learn? But still nothing.
There is a lot of self reflection.
One of the many things Ive thought is that I have thought that so many of my problems would be lifted through nikkah. I would be able to live comfortably with the support of another muslim. Someone who I can share my problems with, my thoughts and feelings, feel safe. But then again shouldnt I feel like that with Allah. I should call out to Allah about my problems. Seek refuge in Allah from the evil of this world. Put my entire trust in Allah.
There is wisdom behind everything Allah does.If Allah doesnt grant me the dua of a spouse Allah saves me from something else that would of harmed me. I have to have sabr and trust in Allah.
I pray that Shaytan will not bother me over this topic as he always does.
May Allah curse Shaytan.Ameen
MashAllah ur trust and belief in Allah is so strong, mashAllah. Are you a sister? You sound like a sister. Sorry i dont know you, but you posted on my blog so i followed ur link. Allah remove all your problems and give you what he thinks is best for you of your lawful tamanna’s (aspirations, dreams)Be strong and keep talking to Allah about your concerns/worries/problems. Maybe he loves the sound of your voice so is delaying you what you asked him for. Allah knows best!
How u doing stranger? Hope ur allright.
(somebody clicked a link to my blog from a comment i left on here ages ago……..explaining my visit
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May Allah grant you a pious husband soon, ameen.
Assallamualaykum
Get up at Tahajjud time. Do wudu, stand infront of Allah in Nafl Salah. Then make humble dua and istikhara:
1. Praise Allah
2. Blessings upon our Beloved
3. Rubbi inni lima unzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer (Musa Alayhis Salam’s dua beofre he got married)
4. Rubbana hablana min azwajina wa thuriy yatina qurrata a’yun wa ja’alnalil mutaqeena imaama
5. Ameen
PS – Don’t forget the rest of us in your pious duas!
…100% guarnteed results! no doubt about it! but only if you r sincere and confident in Allah’s Mercy
…and 1 more thing. stop worrying about those things that are already destined for you.
A partner is like rizq from Allah – it will come to you whether u like it or not. this is not the purpose of ur life nor is it the goal. focus on the Journey you are on, and everything you need will be given to you along the way inshAllah.
…Allah Blessed the Prophet Sallalaho alayhi wassallam with Khadija RadiAllaho anha and enriched him with the love of the most pious lady, halal wealth, security and his only children.